Posted by Paddy on January 23, 2000 at 01:39:29:

In Reply to: Wife of ADD Husband posted by Victoria on January 18, 2000 at 11:13:12:

: Help! I am worn out dealing with ADD-I try to understand and try to accommodate and compromise-try to
: keep a sense of humor-try to "not sweat the small stuff" but it seems to be all one way. I am tired of job changes and moving-tired of conversations that last for a few seconds before he literally leaves the room-I am tired, just plain tired- any other spouses?

Thank God, finally someone who I can talk to that will understand. I could have written what you wrote above. I too have adhd and I take medication-what a miracle drug. My husband takes it occasionally, so why bother at all? I don't think it is possible to have a relationship with an adult who is untreated. "Tired" is they key word. It is so incredibly exhausting and I am "tired" of dealing with it!