Posted by a woman
on September 27, 2000 at 00:50:09:
In Reply to: Re:Same problem. Do what i did. DUMP HER and find a decent girl. posted by BK on September 24, 2000 at 08:43:30:
It is hard to dump one you love. But know this:
No one can help anyone that is not open to it.
She either does not want help or does not want it from you, either way, you can't help her.
Staying with her just enables her to think she is in someway functioning normally. That is enabling her to stay irresponsible.
Leaving her alone to crash to the end of her rope is the most loving thing to do in her case.
This is her responsibility. Find a woman that takes responsibility for herself and deserves your loyalty, and will respond to your love.
That woman is not capable.