Posted by Christine
on October 03, 2000 at 14:22:14:
In Reply to: Re:Same problem. Do what i did. DUMP HER and find a decent girl. posted by BK on September 24, 2000 at 08:43:30:
: : Hello,
: : My girlfriend or recent ex-girlfriend is using crack. She has become a bitter person who no longers enjoys life. Is there anything that I can do to help her? I have confronted her about her problem. She denies it. She had a problem with crack about 5 years ago. It took her to hell and she found her way out. This time it seems worse. She has only been back on the wagon about 3 months but she is so bitter and depressed this time. I was around for her last crack problem. Of course she did not speak to me for the most of it. This time it is the same. I talk to her and I can see in her eyes she hears but then she disappears. I just don't know what to do. Everyone keeps telling me there is no hope for her.
: : Thank you for listening.
: No hope is right. she loves the dope not you. shes only using you. dump her. it's her problem not yours.
MY ADVICE TO YOU IS RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN AND FIND A DECENT PERSON THAT DOESN'T HAVE AN ADDICTION PROBLEM. SHE IS CHOOSING TO USE. SHE COULD CHOOSE TO STOP AND SHE DOESN'T. SHE HAS A DISEASE THAT YOU CHOOSES NOT TO CONTROL. YOU SHOULD RUN REALLY FAST. LIFE IS ODD AND MAYBE SOMEDAY SHE'LL BE SOBER AND YOU WILL FIND LOVE BUT UNTIL THEN SAVE YOURSELF.