Please Help me. I have been taking Ultram for about 2 1/2 years. I take too much. I take it everyday to get the buzz. It gives me energy and the will to get things done in my life. My husband and I are thinking about having another child. I want to get off of this drug before we start trying to conceive. When I have tried to stop taking it I feel: Night sweats, hot and cold flashes, muscle pain (like I have to stretch all of the time), extreme fatigue, I feel very unsocial, no energy at all, can't sleep and these are just to name some of the problems. I don't know what to do. I don't want to go into a rehab because nobody knows that I have this problem. Is there outpatient therapies available where I can go and nobody has to know about it. I really want to get off of the Ultram. I need advise on how to deal with these withdraw symptoms. If there is anything you could tell me that might help, please do. I am begging for advise. I want my life back!!!! Thank you for your time.