Posted by boyfriend
on October 20, 1999 at 10:50:57:
I'm 31, my girlfriend is 35, we've been going out for over 6 months. She has smoked pot on and off for most of her life.
It concerns me a lot. I am concerned about her health. We both love each other very much and have talked about getting married and having a family together.
I don't want my future wife to be a pot head, and I also don't want her to suffer from health problems related to her smoking in the future.
I also don't like not knowing whenever I see her if she is stoned or not, or how stoned she is. I don't want to have serious/romantic discussions with her when she is stoned, but I don't always know, so I tend to assume she is, which can ruin our evening.
I don't want to lose her, nor does she want to lose me. She has broken up with me a couple times over this, only to come back realizing how stupid it was to lose me because she wanted to smoke pot.
Any advice you could give would be greatly appreciated.