In Reply to: I am 29. I feel desperate please help. posted by EVCC on October 12, 2000 at 18:20:43:

: I am a 29 year old male. Still going to school trying to get my bachelors in computer science. I just broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. I feel that I am going to stay alone for the rest of my life. I think that I am getting to old and I am back on square one. Can anyone rlate to this.

I just turned 30 last month and I'm still single, too. I was dating someone but he was transfered to a different state. I know how you feel! Believe me! Of course there will always be people who tell us to not worry about it, but the truth is that these feelings we have are very real. I also have this fear of being alone for the rest of my life. Just know that there are others like you out there! I don't have any answers . . . sure wish I did.