I am looking for private homes accepting a married couple of 70 yrs.-husband (92)is Alz.victim,wife (86)has dementia. Both ambulatory and not incontinent.Need it in San Diego area near other family member.Medicare & secondary ins., plus self-pay ability. HELP, PLEASE!!Husband is presently in Alz.unit,but splitting them up is killing her.We have been caring for them in their home for 10 mos. but due to my husband's health,we need to make change.THANK YOU for any/all phone/names/addresses/recommendations you might beable to give me.Sincerely,Jolene