I just want to say how very depressing it is to admit your parent or loved one for the first time into a home. My mom was recently admitted into the hospital (emphyzema) and us kids had to put my dad in a care center until mom goes home. However, mom's health is very poor and she is really ready to stop being his care giver. I feel so guilty, depressed and pretty much helpless over this whole situation. (I have a 2 and 3 yr old and just don't think my marriage could handle the strain of caring for my dad) When I went to visit him yesterday...he kept putting his coat on, like "let's go" and then accused me of hating him when I told him he had to stay. He is much younger and less far along than the other patients. I really don't need advice...I just wanted to let go of some of my frustrations. I am losing sleep and it is really affecting my life. God Bless all of you in similar situations. =)

• Re: Dad's first time in Alzheimer home marsha 13:33:53 11/29/00 (0)
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