Posted by Renee
on June 18, 2000 at 12:18:47:
In Reply to: Re: Sudden Violence and Aggression in my home, please help posted by Theresa on May 31, 2000 at 15:23:52:
To stressed out mom. My 18 year old son had the same problem behavior. Aggression, cursing, hitting, falling down and kicking, throwing and hitting. We have tried numerous drugs to help his behavior, but nothing helped. The drugs just made his behavior worse. i finally convinced the Doctor to try Buspar, which is an anti-anziety drug. It is working wonders!!! The drug has to be started in small amounts because too much too soon can make a person manic as can many drugs. My son is on 7.5 mgs. twice daily. His cursing has virtually stopped, he has n ot had a major tantrum in a week and is much more compliant. He is also on Depakote for seizures (controlled) and mood swings. I think the combination of the Depakote and Buspar is a good match for my son. Remember that behavior is a sign that the child is unhappy or upset about something. Since they can't tell us their feelings, even if they are verbal, they act out. Since I have been around the track with every possible behavior, feel free to write to me and I'll be happy to share what I have learned. Have you tried having him evaluated for Sensory Occupational Therapy, weighted vests, weighted blankets etc. Log onto SINETWORK.COM. Lots of good information on Sensory Integration Therapy and other things that you can do to help kids. I understand what you are going through. I too do not have much help and I'm raising my son alone. But I keep fighting the system. Remember the louder you yell the more help you'll get..Take care and e-mail me at RPellet537@aol.com or Peltier2@juno.com. Good luck!!!: My 4 1/2 yr old autistic son has always been compliant and very sweet. We have worked hard to provide interventions in the most positive way possible since he was 20 months old. We have always accepted and loved him for who he is...autism and all, but suddenly, things have changed in our home.
: : Starting around January, he became hyper-agressive, and his mood swings (always evident) became more pronounced. He started engaging in dangerous activities.
: : In the last six weeks, things have escalated, and for the last 2 weeks, they have been out of control. He is hitting everyone, lashing out at his sister and is destroying our home. He won't work at school, he throws away his reinforcers. He is self injurious. His mood swings are sudden, violent and uncontrollable.
: : I have attempted to get some support from various services in my area but have had no luck. Our support worker is unavailable.
: : I am severely stressed over this. He has become so difficult I have had to keep him home from school. I do not have alot of help in the home and am a physical and mental mess. I am worried for my 6 yr old NT daughter and feel I have nowhere to turn...
: : Any ideas on what could trigger such a change in personality? I have gone over and over details and can come up with no discernable pattern.
: Dear Highlystressedmom,
: This sounds very similiar to the situation we have found ourselves in since late January. My
: eight-year old autistic daughter suddenly went from compliant and non-behavioral to aggressive,
: self-injurious and totally out of control. She had never slept well, but her sleep habits went from
: bad to worse. Things got so bad I actually had to quit my job and stay home because she
: couldn't make it through the school day and I was constantly being called to school to come and
: get her. Over the next several weeks we also saw numerous specialists who couldn't find any
: medical reason for her behavior. We did figure out eventually that she had reached an age
: where she could get into the cupboards and fridge by herself and was getting into foods that we
: don't allow her. (She has been on the gluten/free/casean/free diet for about two years now). As
: soon as we were able to get her diet straightened out the behaviors became much less frequent
: and she is sleeping better again. It took awhile to get the "junk" back out of her system but it
: was well worth it. I feel as if I am getting my little girl back. Is your son on any special diet? If
: not, you might want to look into the GF/CF diet. For some of our kids it really helps. If he is
: already on a diet, maybe he has reached an age where he is sneaking food? Just an idea.
: I hope this helps. Feel free to e-mail me and let me know how things are going. I know how
: frustrating it is to watch your child fall apart in front of your eyes and feel like there is nothing
: you can to do to stop it. Hang in there! Good luck!