Posted by ???????
on August 28, 2000 at 20:14:28:
In no way do I know exactly how you are feeling , but in some ways I do !! We have 4 children , been married 10 years . Our son is severely Autistic with Mental Retardation .He requires alot of my attention and sometimes I feel like I am not giving my other children the "QUALITY TIME " they deserve!! I stay at home with the kids . My husband does'nt want me working .He goes to work at 3 am and gets home around 5 pm . When he gets home , he is worn out and does'nt feel like being bothered by the kids . All he wants to do is watch TV .....My son cannot do anything for himself and he hits himself alot and is mean to the other children,my husband gets very upset when he does this .... About having an affair ... My recommendations would be "NEVER"" if you really want to save your marriage !!! That would not be the solution at all. I know how you are feeling , sometimes I get depressed and would love for someone to talk to me ,but then I know I love my husband. I wish you the best of luck !!