Posted by Francesca
on November 08, 2000 at 20:14:13:
In Reply to: alright guys, I've got a dilemna here..... posted by Jill D on November 08, 2000 at 18:54:53:
Hi Jill, ask yourself this...if your doc was YOU what do you think HE would do?? Do you not think he would do what HE FELT WAS BEST FOR HIMSELF??? So why are you putting him before yourself?? Is it because he is/was your doc? I can't understand why people do that to themselves. You know pledge their undying love to the one that helped them. We don't owe surgeons anything after the surgey. If you feel more comfortable with the other doc and are able to see him than you should see who you feel more comfortable with and don't hestitate for a minute. It doesn't come down to a matter of trust now. You have to remember when surgeons are doing surgery they have to give it their best shot, if afterwards you don't feel comfortable with them no where is it written that we have to keep them. As far as they're concerned their job is done (at least the ones with the personalities of a doorknob which it sounds like yours has???)
GO TO WHO YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH AND WHEN YOU RUN INTO HIM IN THE OFFICE WHILE HAVING AN APT. WITH THE OTHER DOC JUST SAY HI!....
And tell him that you wanted to spread the wealth around! You know just tell him he gets paid for the surgical procedures and his buds should get paid for the consultations after the surgery(ies) Be sure to laugh real hard and smile. A pat on his back at the same time wouldn't hurt neither. Would work for me! Not to mention that's what I would do!
PS Sorry I didn't get back to you couldn't remember the login or password to respond!