Your reply was beautiful. It touched me in so many ways...I sat here crying while I read. I cried a lot of different kind of tears: grief, sorrow, empathy and happiness. I cried for your story and for mine..for everyone on this board. Your story is one of frustration and loss. Maybe the way that you deal with your loss and the emotional truama that goes along with it is by helping other people. You have a strong voice and seem to be very important to the people on this board. I am glad to have the privledge of hearing your heart and having you give me the gift of a sympathetic ear. Thank you for all that you have said and not said.
My lawyer appointment went well. He gave me great advice and was very down to earth. My husband came with me and asked a lot of good questions. I was really getting taken advantage of by my work and didnt realize how many choices I had. Things will be a lot better now that I have a lawyer involved in my case. I am very used to being in conrtol of everthing and now I am in control of nothing...my husband had been making jokes about how all of a sudden I am this little old lady who can't do anything...fragile and weak..whiny etc. WE had a big blow out because he was not understanding what I am going through...he understands a lot better now. Things are really starting to look up. Thanks for listening...I really wish that this was a local board or that I could find someone in my area that is going through simular things...any ideas on how to do that?? I hope that your Holiday is pain free and I appreciate your kind words and the time that you took out of your day to help me with mine....Thanks, Shawn
- Re: To Pat G. PatG 15:29:09 12/19/00
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