Originally Posted by bellestar
Hi Jeff and Thank you for the reply. My family and I all lived here but the my Father got a promotion and that moved them about 9 years ago. I have asked my HB if he would go to marriage counseling with me becuase we were constantly fighting and with a little one in the house that is not good and I don't think she needs to be around that but he said no that he didn't want to. I though about going by myself but for some reason I never went. This whole situation is just sucking what little happiness I have right out of me. I don't think I want to leave him but totally HATE him for this situation even though I know it is me too and not just him. I am at the end of my rope though. THank you!
Ok so you didn't move because of him. You r family left because of your dad promotion. got it
He is not being fair though. You ask him to do the couseling and he refused. Its not like you were trying to save to save things. Yo may want to go to counseling yourself but I don't know how well thats going to work if he is not even caring to save things.
I am not saying to break apart from him but try to have a better communication method so he understands you. If thats to hard then try a seperation to sort your mind out but if that doesn't work well...