Thanks Bren, thats what I plan on doing. I am not a big fan of my husband's family so I am more concerned about how my DH will take it than I am them. That is horrible, but this is my baby and I have waited a really long time and I will not take any *****
from them. They can do what they like with their kids but this is my baby and I will do as I like. They will just have to deal!!! It is nice to know there are others that feel the same way.