Re: To Calv
For me, when my thoughts get weak, the proper attraction comes back. Id say it probably sounds like your still checking your reaction slightly, like people don't expect to be aroused, they just are or they aren't. I know before ocd I never used to expect to be aroused or check if I was aroused I just was or wasn't. I think that is our biggest problem. As for suggestions on how to do this.... I have no idea to be honest! I suppose seeing a therapist and doing ERP is the only way!