Over 40 and happy as a clam!
By the way, I do believe that part about women being more aware of problems in their marriage. We sit around and hash them out with friends while men get together & talk about sports and the weather!!
NO one should be blindsided by a divorce because the other person didn't begin discussing problems with the spouse - that they just got ready to leave and walked out of the marriage without any warning or discussion.
I made a vow to myself that I would never say anything about my marriage unless I had said something about it first to my husband.
(So far so good!)