I think people change when the get older, and what they thought they wanted out of life or who they loved in their 20's, isn't what they want later in life. I mean just think about how much you change from 20 to 30 to 40. (Well some of you can relate,,,those of you younguns - I think your 22, right Jeff?) Well I just turned 42 (I really only about 10 mentally
) but I know I am SO much different now than I was then. My whole life has changed. Now I didn't marry until I was 32, and my husband was only 25, but very mature (and mentally he's only 10 as well so we match!)
But my point is that people, their wants, needs, lifestyles, views etc,,change when they age.