12-09-2004, 01:23 PM
Senior Veteran (female)
Join Date: Dec 2004
Re: Too much masturbation??
I know if I were in her shoes I'd probably feel a little upset, more hurt than anything, but I can't tell you why exactly, cause I don't know why it bothers me. If the sex between the two of you isn't being affected she shouldn't be concerned.
On the other hand, why is there such a need for masterbation? Maybe your needs aren't being met during sex?? I don't know.
To me I guess I just think if needs are being met, masterbation happens few and far between, but I think as humans it does happen and for someone to sit there and deny it, is just plain idiotic. I have another post on this section about my husband and how he says he doesn't do it anymore. I on the other hand, think he still does it maybe not as often as when he was 25 or 20, but we don't have sex more then once a week if that. Ok now I'm babbling. I hope others come to the rescue and respond! Good luck and if you have any questions I'm on pretty frequently!