Hi,I would be happy to talk with you about your troubles as long as you would not mind hearing mine too. I care for my mom at my home and she is not in pain, but I am. Some times it gets tirersome just because mom is so cranky all the time. Not that I blame her, I would be too. She is 83 and has Emphysema. Better known as COPD. Also Dementia. She keeps going form better to worse, and back again. Also Conjestive Heart Faliure.
Is your wife wanting to talk to someone too. I would be happy to talk to her too. I also have pain. My lower back disc is getting old, and I have a pinched nerve in my left leg. It can be very painful. I hope I hear from you again.....Dee