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Old 03-29-2005, 12:32 PM   #1
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Erection issues again.

I've posted a couple of times here about the same problem. I have a girlfriend and we're sexually active, although we dont engage in oral because she doesnt like the idea. As much as i dislike this, its not that big an issue. The problem is that when we try to have sex, usually when i'm putting on the condom i loose my erection. Its driving me insane, the same thing happened a year ago with my old girlfriend, but i somehow managed to get over it. Its nothing to do with her, sometimes just kissing her gives me an erection, and everything else is fine, but this problem wont go away. I tried not making a big deal out of it so i wouldnt get worked, and tried to stay calm, but its not workigng. I'm starting to get extremely depressed at my helplessness in this, i feel like less of a man. This girl is understanding, but what about the girls later in life that arent? Should i drink a bit before we try so that i'll be calmer or something? Please help...