Originally Posted by reddoorblack
Too late. I already responded. I said:
"Iím sorry but Iím not able to do a mid-week all nighter. I already have plans plus I have work in the morning. Iím free Friday night if you would like to make plans to go out."
The ball is in his court now. If he wants to see me (real date) he'll have to call me.
That was a perfect reply. You have to set some ground rules that get the message across that you are not just available at his whim. You did good! Good luck.