I have a wonderful husband. When we brought ds home he would get up and change his diaper and then bring him to me while i waited in the rocking chair to breastfeed..and he would wait with me the hour that ds would nurse...(I had the baby blues and would cry during the night
) It helped a lot to have him there.
He gives ds a bath..plays..when we go shopping he would carry him around everywhere in his arms or in the baby bjourn or wants to push the stroller all the time!! He sometimes will change ds diaper when we're out eating in a restaurant and finds that not all men's washrooms are equipped with a change table!!
Now that ds is 8mos..and when he was starting to sleep through the night dh would wake up dh would go in and give him his soother.
If I could, I would send out some "give your wife some more help" vibes to all those daddies who need to help you more!!!