Good luck with the schools! I got tired of the fight and the hassle and took my kids out. We've been homeschooling for 3 years now and we'll never go back if we can help it.
My son has Asperger's and he's originally the reason we pulled the kids. We then discovered that my youngest dd has Dyslexia, ADHD and memory problems. She'd be left behind in the system so it's nice to be at home where she can go at her own pace.