Re: My bearings? what to do,,,
I'd be furious if I was dating a guy who stayed with me just because he felt obligated to. You're not doing her any favors staying with her, you're hurting her way more by staying with her when you feel nothing for her.
Just do her a favor and break up with her so she can find a man that will actually love her and want to be with her. This is INSANE to stay with her when you feel nothing but obligation toward her. In fact it's really, really mean.