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Old 09-14-2006, 06:00 AM   #5
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Re: Sad, angry, confused.........

well if you think it's an anger management issue, can you suggest to him that he looks into a class on anger management? tell him from the perspective that you love him and you don't want him to have high blood pressure or a heart attach from getting so upset? actually that's how I discovered my ex had BPD.....I THOUGHT he had an anger management problem, but anger and rage is a symptom of BPD. After reading the anger management boards here and taking it a little further research wise.....it was crystal clear.....he has BPD. He doesn't have an Anger management problem......Anger isn't the problem, anger is the SYMPTOM of BPD. I hope you're right and it's just an anger problem......