should i just give up?
My husband hit on another girl in my parent's living room about a week ago. She was babysitting my two younger brothers and he really freaked her out. (she is much younger than he is) I was absolutely livid when I found out and ended up packing up my two kids and leaving to go to my mother's house. He has since apologized numerous times and is going to go to counseling with our church pastor. I was going to file for divorce next thursday but now I feel like I owe it to my kids to see if he can change. He has agreed to pay for our house and let me and the kids stay in it alone because my mom won't quit pressuring me to get a divorce right away and is driving me crazy. She has never liked him and was very excited when I started talking about divorce. Now I don't know if it's the right thing and I just want to be sure...for my kids' sake. Should I get a legal seperation or not see a lawyer at all? I don't know what to do.