I really feel for you - I have been through the same thing in the last year. Not sure if they will be of help but here are the posts I put up: Relationship break-up: Any advice? http://www.healthboards.com/boards/s...62#post2588062
I truly hope things work out for you and you are happy again soon. It is an awful thign to experience, but you will come out the other side of it a better person.