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Old 10-12-2006, 07:32 PM   #1
JohnsGirlFlea JohnsGirlFlea is offline
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Question Help!!!! Confused newly wed.

Do I trust him? Should I just assume he is still sleeping with her?

Okay, I recently got married to a long time friend of mine aprox. 4 1/2 months ago. We only dated for about 2 months prior to our marrige, but we found ourselves madly in love and wanted to do things the right way..

We have the most awesome relationship he is still one of my best friends but...... Suddenly everything goes sour.

Out of no where he tells me that he just doesn't love me any more and tells me to get my **** and get out,seriously for no reason. I had to cancel our honey moon my dad arranged for us, it was horrible.
I am such a wreck at this point,trying to figure out what I am supposed to do with me and my 3 year old son.
three days later, he changes his mind. He said I think I am making a wrong decision, Bla bla bla....... so we worked it out everything was fine and then it happens again, he wants me to get out.

to get to the point this has happened over 7 times back and forth. He has me on a emotional roller coaster I have gotten to the point where I don't even want to un pack my bags because I know Damn well I will have to pack them again.
One Day he is so in Love with me and the next he hates my guts and swaers I was a big mistake.

Just a few weeks ago I caught him talking to his ex- wife ...
well after that I had detailed phone records printed out to see just how much he has really been talking to her and guess what he has talked to her every day at least 11 times a day since 2 weeks after we got married.
EVERY DAY!!!

In addition I found out he spent the night at her house and slept in her bed 2 weeks ago when he was supposivly with the boys... But they both swear they did not sleep together....
when I called him out on everything he swore up and down that he was so sorry and he loves me and agreed that he would never call her again. well, He called two days later about 10 different times for about 15 min. each time .

What am I supposed to do? I love him so much,. Can I fix him?

Did I mention they got a divorce because he cheated on her with 12 different women numberous amount of times.and they were only married for 7 months but still were sleeping together up un till we started dating so he says. He is one thing in my crazy life I was sure of, but now I am not so sure . where are all the good guys at what ever happened to "Marriage"why is it taken so lightly.

Last edited by JohnsGirlFlea; 10-12-2006 at 07:50 PM.