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Old 11-03-2006, 01:13 PM   #25
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Re: Long distance relationship--with no resolution

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Originally Posted by brook65
Yeah I understand you wanting to find out if your feelings and his feelings are correct! and yes you should perhaps find out, otherwise it will always be in your mind - if only, or what if?

The same went for me with the guy I met on holiday, I think everyone thought it wouldn't pan out, but I had to find that out for myself.

I think the point I and some others are trying to make is, be careful, I know it is hard, but try not to build your hopes up too much, keep realistic, you don't REALLY know him.

I'm like you romantic, are you a Cancer by any chance?

See what happens, if it is meant to be it will be, that is what I believe anyway.

Just stay focused on thinking he MAY not turn out as perfect as you thought, but if he does then that is a bonus.

Best of luck

Realistic and careful--reason for our dilemma. If we were being unrealistic and throwing caution to the wind, we would be together already

I'm a Leo.

I will be careful, but don't always have control of my emotional reactions, so I know it will hurt---that's really unavoidable at this point.

Thanks for your concern---really.