Re: no feeling during sex or oral sex
You’re very self conscience about your body so it might be because you are not allowing yourself to enjoy your boyfriends touch.
Have you ever masturbated? Not only does it relieve stress, but it lets you know what you like and don't like when it comes to intimacy. If you’re having pain or you are not feeling anything... You may want to see your GYN doctor.
Other then that, relax and improve on your self love. If you don't believe you’re sexy and desirable you need to do some self evaluation before you get into a relationship. Let your bf know how you are feeling also.