I was 9 dpo according to my chart...but I think I was more like 11 dpo when I tested BFP.
I defiantely had cramps!!! I had some cramping pretty much right after O all the way until after I tested BFP. Also, on the day I expected AF, I had REALLY BAD AF cramps. It felt like the heavy day of my period, but I never bled.
Other symptoms I had were very tired and thirsty. I started nausea and barfing a little over a week ago