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maryland87 · 01-31-2007, 06:13 AM

Thanks for your help! I know I should tell them before sex but its the hardest thing to do. I mean he's already asked about STD's and I dont know what to say. I wanna tell him so bad but then we have only been on 2 dates. So i dont know what to do. I don't wanna lie but I also don't wanna take the chance at being hurt. I got herpes from someone who didn't tell me they had it and how does that make me feel? I don't wanna do the same thing to someone else. So I don't know. Im just scared!

01-31-2007, 06:13 AM	#5
maryland87 Newbie (female) Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Federalsburg, Maryland Posts: 7	Re: When is the right time to tell your new partner you have herpes? Thanks for your help! I know I should tell them before sex but its the hardest thing to do. I mean he's already asked about STD's and I dont know what to say. I wanna tell him so bad but then we have only been on 2 dates. So i dont know what to do. I don't wanna lie but I also don't wanna take the chance at being hurt. I got herpes from someone who didn't tell me they had it and how does that make me feel? I don't wanna do the same thing to someone else. So I don't know. Im just scared!