Re: Shyness, Low self esteem.
Boy, you are sure down on yourself! You know, it is almost the opposite of an inferiority complex going on here...you have written a script for your life, and by jove, nobody is going to alter that by one line!! I can already hear "Yes, but" being said for ANY suggestions you get here. As to fear of rejection, what is to reject?? You are really getting ahead of yourself, planning the divorce before you have even spoken to the poor girl. Heavens above, man, just say hello, or wave at her. As for your last sentence, that is fairly insulting to the girl, who just sounds like a nice person, and most men, who would probably just think "What a nice girl". I feel for shy people, and I also feel that there is no use sitting in a room moaning about being shy,unless you really intend to remain the same for ever