Re: First time having sex i cant get an erection!!
Originally Posted by pendulum
This is absolutely the norm for your first time and for a 18-year-old. I think there are at least three "solutions" for your case:
1. Make the preliminaries last as long as possible. Don't haste into penetration, but rather explore the girl's body as best as you can and allow yourself to be explored as well.
2. Practice masturbation.
3. Let yourself be led by the girl. Ask her what to do next. This will show her that you are concerned about her and her feelings.
A fourth piece of advice:
Fall in love first. Don't simply make sex, but make love with someone you love.
i do explore the girl but i run out of things to do.
Last edited by Mod-S4; 05-01-2007 at 05:49 PM.
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