Re: Can a doctor tell if you are a virgin or not?
Hopefully you will get her tested for STD's just in case she has been sexually active. I know this must be horribly difficult for you as her protector and parent. I was an 18 year old virgin at the time of my first exam and the doctor basically called me a liar until she did the exam....she was very quick to apologize. And yes, I had been wearing tampons for years. I would imagine the doctor may have an idea whether or not she has been having sex, but I would also assume that it would not be conclusive without confirmation by your daughter. If she has been having sex, I would suggest you get try to get some professional help as a child that young should not be having sex in the first place. I hope you get some answers soon so you will know how to help your daughter.