Re: Just need to vent. . . . .yet again :-)
No, you do not want to all live under the same roof.
Your dad needs to retain his own place and be in charge.
YOU need to stay in your home and have a place to go to get away from the care giving.
All of you need your own space.
No two women can live under the same roof in peace as a rule. Both want to be in charge.
You and your husband need your own space as a couple/family.
Even tho you are the youngest and the female, it is not fair for you to take on the full burden of your parents. Your brothers should pitch in and help. They can do laundry, clean house, etc. the same as you.