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Old 07-20-2007, 09:11 AM   #4
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Re: Possible Pregnancy !? Need Serious Advice Please !

Right now you say you 'might' be pregnant. Any reason you don't know for sure?

Anyway, you have 2 options then - tell her now that you 'might be pregnant' (which is probably way easier than telling her that you are for sure) or take a test and tell her when you know for sure. But you have to tell her, and as soon as possible. Get prepared for her being shocked, angry etc etc, but the longer you wait, the more that is going to make her mad too, and you don't want to give her any extra reasons to be mad.

That said, if you are pregnant, she will get over it. She is your mother and after the initial shock, she will revert back to mom mode and be there for you (assuming that's the kind of mother she's always been for you).

Anyway, tell her soon. (And as for how to tell her, you could try: "mom, what would you do if I ever told you I thought I might be pregnant?". And tell her at night, so she can sleep on it.)