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Old 07-29-2007, 07:33 AM   #5
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Re: totally lost

The pain you feel is normal and you have to go through it to come out on the other side. I lost my husband on the 8th of this month and I still cry and feel lost. I feel that way mostly in the mornings and late night. The worse part is we were separated because of abuse (he was unmedicated bipolar) I loved him with all my heart but could not live with him. It breaks my heart that he is gone now and we will never have a chance to be together. Hopefully the pain will go away for those of us mourning. I believe with any tradegy a person grows in understanding and compassion. Maybe we can reach out to other in their pain some day and be a help. We know the feelings of losing someone we love. I am sorry for your loss.