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Old 09-02-2007, 04:37 AM   #2
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Re: I think I have to walk away. I'm petrified.

T,

You wrote:

I'm in love with him, and I don't trust him.

Now I am not the "authoritarian" on love but I feel that one of the components of a loving relationship is trust.

If that isn't there, the relationship is doomed to wither away.

I feel your indecisive frustration; really.

Remember that you are not defined by another individual's companionship; it is the companionship(other individual) that defines your intentions.(my opinion)

It seems that you are putting too much energy into what you hope will happen.

Have you ever thought about it; bear with me a moment:

The two of you are together and he doesn't feel the same way about you as you do him.

Don't you think that this alone would eventually weigh you down?

Why just settle, when you don't have to? (JMO)

Ryan

Last edited by Phoenix; 09-04-2007 at 05:37 AM. Reason: spelling