Re: Dont know what to do.
I understand it is a very complex situation, and I have not been through anything of the like, but I can see why it is not an easy choice to take.
I guess you have to put everything in perspective and see what do you rather. Many times kids do not take divorce or separation as hard as we think, but only you know your son, so I don't know what would happen in your case. I can say that my parents were separated for 2 years when I was 12 and I was rather happy because they both were doing better, so it was more peaceful.
The fact that you separate does not imply that your son never sees him again. I'd see my dad every day when they were not together.
How long will be until your boy is 18? do you feel that you want to wait that long?