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Old 09-27-2007, 06:26 AM   #3
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Re: I feel I am being psychologically abused...am I unreasonable?

Thanks for your reply, I am glad to hear someone else's opinion. Sometimes it's hard to know the right thing when you're caught up in so many intense feelings. He has really only started this since we got married, he was always a little wierd about me going out with friends, but it was never this bad. We didn't live together, and maybe that is why I didn't notice it so much before.
I used to look forward to having children with him, but now I almost fear it because of the way he's changed.

I guess if I give him an ultimatum, I'm really going to have to be prepared to leave if I have to. I feel so much like I don't have the resolve to do that, this is so hard. I wish I knew these things earlier, I've grown so attached to his family, because I don't really have one of my own. But, that is life, I suppose.

Thanks for your help, I am going to try this and see what happens.