Re: I feel I am being psychologically abused...am I unreasonable?
You are in an abusive relationship. I've been there for 6 m and was sick from it for a very long time. It is not harmless to your mental and phisical health to start with. You can have depressions, ptsd and so on.
It is very typical be abusive than nice for few days, isolating friends and family, trying to persuade you that you can't get anybody else, phisical abuse. I personally think that person like that can't be changed. You better of alone or with a descent person. It doesn't have to be like that. Live him before you have kids with this crip.