CyberNick

It just depends on your values and what you expect from a partner. If you can't deal with his questionable past actions... then you need to get out as soon as possible and not waste your time trying to accept something that you never will. I don't think I know of one woman who would seriously stay with a man after that type of disclosure, but to each their own. Like Seraph said, once or twice is curious. For it to happen on five seperate occasions seems to be a bit more than curiosity.