Thread: is he bored?
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Old 11-08-2007, 11:13 AM   #8
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Re: is he bored?

I agree that it may just be that it's not a new relationship anymore... not that he is bored or anything, but he has made it more of a routine. Some guys don't pick up on the little hints we give... I find that sometimes you have to straight out say what you want... because what might sound clear to you may not be the same for him! So maybe you can suggest trying a particular position you wanted to try out or something similar like that... just be straight forward and tell him what is on your mind. Remember that it's okay for YOU to take control as well! I know a lot of ladies aren't the dominant ones in bed, but most guys really enjoy it when a woman takes charge. Maybe you can climb on HIM before he gets a chance to start up his usual routine. Good luck!