11-08-2007, 01:13 PM
Junior Member (male)
Join Date: Sep 2007
Re: is he bored?
Originally Posted by mollypolly07
my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years now. we have had sex for about 2 1/2 years of that time. up until about 4 months ago, we always had fun. trying different positions, just experimenting and stuff. but for the past 4 months, he just climbs on top, and just when I'm about to switch it up, it's done. I have tried everything I can think of to try to make it more interesting. I have bought sexy lingerie, a game, I even bought him 2 coupon books, both of which I haven't seen since I gave them to him. I tried talking to him about it, I asked him if he was bored, and all he said was no of course not. I don't know if I believe this. I don't want to make him feel bad, but the foreplay lasts about a minute, and the actual intercourse is never more than 5 minutes! I don't know what to do... any advice would be great!!
Just let him do what he wants. He sounds like he wants to dominate, thats understandable. If you say hes coming too fast he probably already knows that and telling him would just make him mad. Im sure hes working on it.
Last edited by romanum56; 11-08-2007 at 01:14 PM.