Re: Please help me. im desperate.
is your father in treatment for his issues? it sound like he could be bipolar. whatever it is you are going through, be sure of this: your dad is being ABUSIVE. and it may not be his fault; he may have an illness.
has he been to see a psychiatrist? it sounds like you should all go to counseling as a family. what does he do for a living that he needs help from you all the time?