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Old 03-25-2008, 08:08 PM   #1
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I don't know if I was raped...please help

Hi guys I really need help.

When I was about 10 or 11, I went to my mom's friend's place to spend the night. It was hot so I only wore my underpants. The next day, I found blood on my panties. I never told anyone about it, however it's bothered me to this day.

Was I raped? Was the blood from the popping of my cherry in my sleep, or was it menarche? I do remember my period started about 6 months after that, however I am under the impression that menarche is more than just a speck of blood. Also a couple years later when I first used a tampon I remember it hurt really badly, so it could mean that my humen was intact...however I really don't know.

Is it possible for a girl to be raped in her sleep without her realising it? Is there any way that I can test for my virginity? Please help me, this has haunted me for more than a decade. I need to know if I am still a virgin (never had sex). Any questions just ask.