Re: I don't know if I was raped...please help
I agree, I really believe that had you been raped, there is no way you would have slept through it, because being a virgin and given your age at the time, it would have been very painful for you. You would have surely woken up if that were the case.
I agree that it was probably just a precursor to the actual start of your period.
Have you sought some counseling? Because I'm sure that this has weighed very heavy on your mind and it might help if you talked with someone about your feelings.