Thanks Pisces82! Im going to check that book out most def. I dont think he will be coming back because he is standing firm in his decision and he has repeatedly said he does not want to be in a relationship anymore! SO that tells me that it wont change his mind on coming back if i never call him. But i have backed off already and I am strong enough to do it for whatever time I have to do it for. Thanks though it's just a hard time for me but Im trying not to let it affect me like I thought it would.