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healthseeker · 08-31-2008, 08:00 PM

My gosh...he doesn't want his friends to know he has a girlfriend? There are some MAJOR red flags here.

Listen, you keep saying that you need to make a friendship before you leave him....but this relationship IS the reason you don't have friends. That is just an excuse. You can join a charity...doesn't matter which one...that meets once a week or whenever you like. You will be forced to work along with people and will make friends this way. I have done this plenty!

He is ripping your self esteem to shreds and you must get away. The only thing stopping you is you....not him, friendships or anything else. Get away from this miserable person.

08-31-2008, 08:00 PM	#9
healthseeker Senior Veteran (female) Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 589	Re: My unclear problem with my fiance My gosh...he doesn't want his friends to know he has a girlfriend? There are some MAJOR red flags here. Listen, you keep saying that you need to make a friendship before you leave him....but this relationship IS the reason you don't have friends. That is just an excuse. You can join a charity...doesn't matter which one...that meets once a week or whenever you like. You will be forced to work along with people and will make friends this way. I have done this plenty! He is ripping your self esteem to shreds and you must get away. The only thing stopping you is you....not him, friendships or anything else. Get away from this miserable person.